My mom has been in town this week. Pearl may be 83 and using a walker, but still tough as nails. In my family, she was the caretaker, the breadwinner and the nursemaid for all the kids, the grandparents, the crazy aunts and some of the cousins. My father was an artist and fell ill when I was around 8 years old, so she essentially ran the house and then some. I’m not sure when she’ll be back to visit so I took the opportunity to use her for my blog. “Pearls of Wisdom” so claimed by me and my sister:
1. Worrying will not help. Tomorrow will be a better day.
2. You must have security.
3. Attitude is key. There’s always something to be grateful for. The little things: friends, a good meal, etc…
4. Your family is very important. They need to be taught to be responsible people, kind, and able to function by his or herself. .
5. Be grateful for good health.
6. If you’re confused about making a decision, “s&*t or get off the pot!” Or, wait another day.
7. If you’re a mom, make your girls look pretty and be a gracious hostess. (Remember, she’s from the south)
8. If you work for someone, be kind, be specific about you need from someone and remember, others are not servants to you. A “Thank You” and a “Please” always works.
9. Kill them with kindness.
10. A little lipstick never hurt.
